Think about before you whine.
Do you really have the reason to feel that way?
Have you ever thought if your reason is really a reasonable one? Or a waste of time?
I know that life’s always tough. There are times that the world has put a hex on you-that you’ve been carrying and suffering from it for a long time.
But think again. Consider what you have now.
Blessings you’ve received to be exact. Simple things like the presence of people who support you all the way, the fact that you’re still alive, have something to eat, have work, etc. There’s always a reason why you’re here. Whatever happens, happens. And reason caused it to happen.
Monday, 15 March 2010
Wednesday, 10 March 2010
So what's up?
Marriage
Engagement
Pregnancy
The fads nowadays?
I constantly check my facebook account just to amuse myself like playing games, checking others' profiles and liking some of their posts. Doing this as a routine can sometimes be dull, but finding out some news about your school mates way way back, can arouse your interest to visit their profiles once in a while.
Sort of an investigation? Well, they made you do that. Nowadays, the people whom I know by name and I really know well have lots of things to expose. So, what are the popular topics? One post will shock you saying that she's going to have a baby or she already gave birth. Another one will even show off their engagement or wedding rings. I haven't got anything against them, but I'm just wondering if these are the fads at present. It's not a feeling of enviousness but maybe a wake-up call that I'm getting older? OH MY! But actually, I find it so strange that maybe starting last year and up to know, these kinds of issues are the hot topics on facebook. They're bombarding that social networking site.
It's their moment to be proud of those experiences, I suppose. That's why I'm giving them that moment. But for now, I'll concentrate more on my career that is, if I do have. :D
Sunday, 7 March 2010
24 today, tomorrow's FOREVER
We've been away yet we're still overcoming the loneliness.
People always wonder why people have long-distance relationships. They also say that there's no point in having that kind of relationship as if it's a joke. I was also one of them before, but now, everything's becoming clearer.
It wasn't actually their or our choice. We we're left with that choice. Maybe we need to be used to not being together as a test. In the end, we can spend our lives being together. We just have to wait and be patient.
For an emotional weak person, it is indeed very tough. But, it is a way of making yourself stronger. It's not that you have to be used to it or get the hang of it. You just have to try overcoming not being with your partner. He/ she may not be physically present with you, but you always have to remember that you have someone to look forward to-someone who loves and cares for you. Someone who means everything for you. This will always remind you how lucky you can be having that kind of person. Many people oftentimes failed to realize this. I know how badly you want to see you partner and be with him/ her. Sulking for a long time won't bring anything to you. Therefore,it's USELESS. Whenever you feel depressed, just think of the memories that you had with that person and you'll always feel grateful that at least, you have that person.
"Being depressed is useless." That's what my boyfriend told me. It sounds as if he doesn't really care about me, but he has a point. I didn't feel hurt when he gave me this remark .I took this one as a challenge. For all that he says, I take it as an advice. So for what I am now, it's because of him. I'm really thankful for having him.
We might not be together most of the time, but it's enough for us to know that we have each other no matter what. Thanks to our constant communication and our time for each other, this relationship became possible.
We will still continue holding on until we can be together. It's a dream that's waiting to be fulfilled. :)
^
I later realized how difficult and tedious it is to make a cartoon movie.^
People always wonder why people have long-distance relationships. They also say that there's no point in having that kind of relationship as if it's a joke. I was also one of them before, but now, everything's becoming clearer.
It wasn't actually their or our choice. We we're left with that choice. Maybe we need to be used to not being together as a test. In the end, we can spend our lives being together. We just have to wait and be patient.
For an emotional weak person, it is indeed very tough. But, it is a way of making yourself stronger. It's not that you have to be used to it or get the hang of it. You just have to try overcoming not being with your partner. He/ she may not be physically present with you, but you always have to remember that you have someone to look forward to-someone who loves and cares for you. Someone who means everything for you. This will always remind you how lucky you can be having that kind of person. Many people oftentimes failed to realize this. I know how badly you want to see you partner and be with him/ her. Sulking for a long time won't bring anything to you. Therefore,it's USELESS. Whenever you feel depressed, just think of the memories that you had with that person and you'll always feel grateful that at least, you have that person.
"Being depressed is useless." That's what my boyfriend told me. It sounds as if he doesn't really care about me, but he has a point. I didn't feel hurt when he gave me this remark .I took this one as a challenge. For all that he says, I take it as an advice. So for what I am now, it's because of him. I'm really thankful for having him.
We might not be together most of the time, but it's enough for us to know that we have each other no matter what. Thanks to our constant communication and our time for each other, this relationship became possible.
We will still continue holding on until we can be together. It's a dream that's waiting to be fulfilled. :)
^
I later realized how difficult and tedious it is to make a cartoon movie.^
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